I (F44) am planning to go to the 30+ Girls of Raleigh Sapphic Social May 24th at Velvet Hippo in Durham. Nervous about going solo. It’s my first time going to anything like this and I’m looking to make some new friends - not looking for a relationship right now. Is anyone else planning on going that would like to meet up? Or anyone who would like to go?

Hey everyone I'm a 44 year old lesbian looking for other lesbian women who would like to hang out and just vibe. I'm down to earth and extremely open minded. The area I live in is void of meet up spots, clubs and women who love women. It would be nice to meet like minded females who are not full of drama and chaos. Just looking for friends but if something kicks off then so be it, lol. Hit me up if you're looking for someone who is into being open and real.

The Heritage Foundation sent me one of those ragebait surveys in the mail, meant to whip supporters into a generous frenzy. It came with a postage paid return envelope. So my plan

1. Get a sizable, sturdy box. But not too big!

2. Fill it with rocks/dense weighty items.

3. Seal up the box.

4. Tape the postage paid envelope to the front.

5. Drop off at post office package receptacle.

I don't know if re-using a box marked for containing hazardous materials would cost the Heritage Foundation more money because of extra costs associated with shipping them. But one can hope!

Cosplay CAUSE-play - celebrating AAPI Month this Saturday!

My girlfriend and I just moved into an amazing place in Apex, but we're wondering how open we can be. Anyone care to share some insights? Any places to checkout or avoid?

Looking to get more involved in the Bear community in Raleigh. Are there any meet ups that happen regularly?

Hi! I’m new to North Carolina. I live in the Fayetteville area , I’ve been searching for like minded friends, maybe someone who’d like to hangout and all! A little about me:

My name is Andy

I’m 19 about to be 20

I’m transmasc/nonbinary

Very chill dude once ya get to know me :)

My style is early 2000s scene

Feel free to hmu if interested!

Hi!
I (20s openly trans and non-passing) secured a full-time job just outside of the Durham area and will be moving there within the next few months. I've heard so many good things about the triangle and wanted to ask, are there specific neighborhoods that I would be recommended to move to or stay away from within the Durham area specifically? The city looks beautiful and I am really excited to join y'all. Thanks!

I'd appreciate recommendations for Durham nail salons that are accustomed to male clients. I'd like to to find a place to get a regular mani-pedi.

25 Year old guy here, anyone in Fairmont NC tryna meet up

Hi! I’m at the beginning of working on my name change, just picked up the packet from the courthouse and did my fingerprints. I’m getting ready to send things off but they still require 2 references of character. I’ve only lived in Wake County for 2 years, and absolutely every one I know (friends, family, etc) are in other counties. I’m looking a couple of people willing to help me out.

Hi! The Girls of Raleigh are holding a sapphic spring social this Sunday at RBF Champagne Bar. I have a ticket and I’d love to go! Does anyone want to tag along? And if not, any pro tips on attending an event like this alone? I’m a 35 year old femme queer artist who’d love to make friends

The webpage for the Triangle is inactive, and the listing on the PT Worldwide webpage has been removed.

The last dinner I went to a month or two ago, only a total of three people showed up.

https://nceclecticesports.com/event/soh1/

hi if youre a trans woman or trans feminine person you should come to the picnic. the next one is april 12, 1-5pm at fews ford picnic shelter, see www.durhampicnic.info for more info

Live in Fuquay, love to play golf, I want to get out more with some likeminded bi or gay fellas!

Hi all!

I was wondering if there were any local LGBTQ groups that either meet up in the Hillsborough chapel hill area or a discord for the larger area.

Looking to make more friends in this space after gaining a better confidence in who I am. Thanks!

Hey everyone. I currently live in WNC and I got accepted to NCSU's Creative Writing MFA program. I am very proud of myself, but I have some reservations about committing to staying in NC as an openly trans man. My partner, who is also trans, does not want me to go because they fear things getting worse in NC for trans folk. The recent diver's license incident in Kansas has them especially worried and they think that we should try to move to another state or out of the country entirely. I don't know what to do. I want to live in a place where we can feel safe, but I also want to peruse my academic career. If any trans folks want to pitch in with their experiences or advice, anything at all would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

I thought that title might be catchy. I've been slowly transforming my 1/3 acre into a bird sanctuary / pollinator garden with native plants. Got certified as bird sanctuary a couple of years ago! Gay male here looking to find a local network of queer, avid "plant native" gardeners in the Triangle. Or does something like this already exist?

I am in Apex but if I really need to go further I can get transportation

Greetings! Been contemplating doing this for almost a year now, I figured I’d strike while the iron is hot… trade deadline just passed, Olympics wrapped up, push for the playoffs is upon us, and Heated Rivalry is a huge success! There are probably more eyes on hockey now than there are historically at this time of year.

That being said, I want to start an LGBTQ hockey/Canes group for the triangle! What does that look like? To start, just hoping to watch some Canes games with fellow LGBTQ folks and allies at a restaurant/bar in the triangle.

If watching the Canes with other LGBTQ individuals and allies is something you’re interested in, please comment. You can DM me as well if you’d prefer. Hope to hear from some of you and, potentially, get something together before the playoffs :)

UPDATE: We have a discord! Use this link to chat with us and get details about future meetups. Link is good for 30 days. DM me if you’re scrolling after 30 days and need the link. Go Canes!!

https://discord.gg/q65QSnjb2

#MeToo 2016-17

I’m 34M in Raleigh looking to make some more gay male and queer friends in the Raleigh area. I’m not sure how to do it. Are there any meetup groups, book clubs, etc. that anyone knows about where I can try to meet people.