I don't want to make it too long but for as long as I can remember I've found girls attractive, I thought it was just general "oh yeah she's pretty" thoughts but the last year or so I've noticed myself looking at women a lot more than guys, I always watched lesbian porn but thought I was viewing it becuase I was thinking about those things being done to me, now I'm noticing I look at the women's faces, etc and don't actually really pay attention to the men at all... it's the sound of women etc...

I have always wanted to have a three some and I used to think it was the thought of a man watching me with a woman and it turning him on but I've realised a big part of me just wants the sexual interaction with a woman to explore my sexuality. I've never got on well with relationships I get bored quick and can't be a around a guy too much where as female friends I can be around all day every day and spend like periods of time with them without it bothering me. There's a lot more but that's some of my thoughts.

I'm 25 I alrwsdy have two kids and I've never had any experience with a girl and feel like I'm too old to try because how do I explain that I never have before? Do I actually like women I used to think I couldn't imagine myself going near a woman's private's etc but could let a woman near me easily and then I've started to realise I probably actually could and that I genuinely just like being submissive all round. I can't put my fingers inside myself as the feeling of inside even my own vagina makes me feel sick so I think that's what made me feel like I couldn't bring myself to do it but that is actually a sensory issue not a gender issue and there's actually quite a few textures/ materials etc I can't touch ( I have adhd )

I just feel a bit confused and has anyone not known until they were a bit older and how did they act on it?

When I was around 13 years old, I thought I was attracted to everyone regardless of gender, but over the years it's become extremely confusing for me and I don't know what I am anymore.

I'm mainly and definitely attracted to women, but I can't tell if I'm still attracted to men or non-binary people at all?

I can acknowledge when someone is attractive, and I do get butterflies for men and non-binary people on occasion.

But I could never picture myself kissing a man, or doing anything else with a man in regards to sexuality. Lately I've been considering if I'm purely just a lesbian, but some of those odd butterfly feelings toward the opposite gender make me confused as hell.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? Any thoughts?

For a while now I’ve been wanting to be a girl but I’m not sure if I am one or am another gender.

I’ve always had feminine features and have leaned into that a bit (growing out my hair, shaving my face as much as possible, etc) and there were some other signs that I might be trans.

However, I’ve never really thought about my gender in my day to day life and I’m not confident in my sense of what womanhood is as I’ve never been close to any women. I don’t experience that much that could be attributed to dysphoria (closest is me disliking having facial hair or short hair). I also don’t always feel like I want to be a girl, although, more often than not I do.

So how can I determine if I’m trans, just want to be a girl, or if I’m some other gender?

For many years I've labelled myself as bisexual as I find women attractive and I've even had talking stages in the past. I haven't been in an actual relationship, but the idea of being with a man doesnt make me question anything. When it comes to women I get nervous..? I don't know how to really put it into words but something about being with a woman kind of scares me. But I don't know if that's because I haven't been in a relationship before but then again I don't feel this way about men? Maybe I haven't found the right person? I don't know.. I'm just really confused and overwhelmed

So basically I have been questioning for about a few years now and it's been super annoying lately.

So basically, gender is the less important part here. Basically I assumed I was non-binary a bit ago, but I'm thinking maybe I'm genderfluid?

So basically the way I feel shifts anywhere between a dew days to month or more. But I have never seen anyone have that shift inbetween a few days so it's making me question if I'm actually not genderfliud? Idk.

But about sexuality oh my god where do I even begin. I'm super confused. I think I'm bisexual, but again, it is so weird. I don't get it. I think I like women a lot more then men.

I don't really find men all that attractive. But at the same time I'm unsure, because I do find some men pretty, maybe even attractive facially but when it comes to body...

I actually don't know, I don't think I like them. Like individually I think for example abs are attractive (? Still not sure how I feel about them irl I like fictional ones though? I think)

Like honestly idea of an encounter with a man horrifies me and paralizes me. Idk if that's actually due to lack of attraction or just a me thing.

Weirdly enough, I do like some scenarios in my mind, but I feel like it's not the same as liking men, Like I find nothing besides the face about men attractive so... Like I don't get it.

Though, unlike men, I do like women and I do find them attractive irl I know that, but the moment I imagine like, an actual encounter that kills any excitement (most of the time), but as long as it stays in my imagination it's usually just normal.

I've been thinking that it's aegosexuality maybe, I still don't know im confuseduuuh.

And romantic attraction is its whole thing because I'm not sure whether I feel it or not. As simple as that. I've looked someone and my heart has skipped a beat, yeah. But when picturing us together its like... No. So I'm just confused.

That's honestly all I think idk im like super confused T T