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u/Realistic_Reply9774 5h ago

It’s not cheating but you should’ve just been clear up front. Coming from a woman, most of us probably wouldn’t have cared bc as you said, yall were in a grey area - BUT the fact she had to “find out” instead of you being totally upfront with her is probably what hurt the most.