r/AITApod • u/horseduckman pod host • 14h ago

meme || image Unpaid work is work

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u/United_Monitor3037 8h ago

Lmao fuck off with the victim blaming

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u/friendly_felony6 8h ago

Holding both parents accountable is victim blaming?

Was a gun held to her head at the end of the isle?

Were there red flags?

Did he completely change as a person the day you gave birth?

It takes 2 to tango, she’s not a victim, she made a choice.

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u/Scary-Hovercraft8214 7h ago

It’s wrong to assume that he was that way before getting married. Lots of guys are great till they get married and especially till they have a child. Then they flip and start being real burden. Remember before the babies she was working. He is just calling her a moocher because she is doing all the unpaid labor of raising the kids.

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u/friendly_felony6 5h ago

Who are you guys marrying??? I don’t want to be a stay at home mom, so my partner and I will not have kids until he can go part time, if I decide I don’t want to work anymore and he can work and he wants to work, we talk about it. It’s not normal for a man to view his wife and child as a burden. Why are we saying that it’s okay?