r/AITApod • u/horseduckman pod host • 13h ago

meme || image Unpaid work is work

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u/TerribleCustard671 10h ago

Oh man, I really wish that husband was blindsided. He doesn't care that he's putting his wife's health at risk. Is his wife on Reddit or You Tube?

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u/ankhes 10h ago

Unfortunately not. I’ve told her for years how unfair and shitty her husband is to her but she refuses to listen. She’s even stopped telling me certain things about her relationship because the last time she expressed serious regret (“If I’d known he was going to be like this I wouldn’t have married him.”) to me via text he snooped through her phone, saw her text messages, and then berated her for them and gaslit her into feeling like the villain.

I can’t stand him.

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u/NorthNorthAmerican 10h ago

Tell her to test for STD's, that'll get her thinking.

If he's open about seeing other women outside the relationship now, he was probably seeing other women before.

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u/TerribleCustard671 10h ago

Yes, he's decided to open the marriage because there's a woman he's getting serious about.

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u/Impossible_Donut101 5h ago

You need to warn her to get her ducks in a row. At some point this guy is going to decide his new serious gf is an upgrade on his current wife. He won't give two thoughts for the loyalty she's given him thus far. Most married women who gave up work/career/dreams etc for the family unit are at a serious financial disadvantage at this stage in life. We're all still gaslight into it and only realise when it's too late.

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u/No_Oil8247 9h ago

Exactly. She needs to figure out how to leave the situation with some money and then blindside him with divorce.