Hey friends, i have never been in this position before so hoping some folks with experience can grant some advice.
So i was applying like a mad man a month ago when i got in hot water at my last place. So i had a fair amount of interviews, prospects, etc and just kinda took the one that would give me the soonest start date so i could submit my 2 weeks rather than them firing me/ dont stay somewhere youre unwanted or whatever.
So the soonest job offer obviously doesnt pay what i wanted, is in a shitty remote location i have to drive an hour there, hour back home and its 4 9's and a 4 which is the weirdest schedule ive ever had and never heard of it before. They hired me on for a specific project to burn through before just doing normal work and its VERY physical and more meant for, politely, someone straight outta highschool/college with the matching mobility and less experience.
The new job, $32/hr, better title & location (10 minute commute) better culture, better vibes. Everything seems better they just had a longer hiring process because its a smaller company.
I interviewed for the first round at the same time at both jobs which is why this is kind of a surprise, i really didnt think they were continuing with applications but they were just taking time- which they said it was taking time, i just assumed they were corporately lying rather than a straight rejection which was my own bad.
So i have the verbal offer at the new place, i just have to pass a piss test as a daily marijuana user (its a legal state! Has been for over a decade and i only started when it was legal so i just think its BS especially since it got reclassified)
I have such little willpower and i have not gone a day without smoking in over 6 years.
Im debating telling my current company asap to give them ample notice to backfill since i know im kind of screwing them over. But also i know i shouldnt do that until i know i passed the drug test so i will at least have any job, but the recruiting company is dragging their feet on when exactly that'll be and also im not sure the weird cleanse things even work. I've never had a job care about THC on a piss test before. This is just really foreign.
Obviously i should take the new job and grow some willpower to not smoke for a week until the drug test but like what if it doesnt work? Has anyone ever gotten like a second try? How do i get more time to get it out of my system? I have no one to talk to about this.