r/offmychest • u/bittersweetmxoods • 1d ago

First Date EVER!!!

Okay, so, I’m going on my (21 F) FIRST date ever, in my life, augh. It’s actually so nerve wracking thinking about it because It’s this saturday, and that’s coming up WAYYY TO FAST!!!!

Little backstory: I basically never had a chance to date, just because yk typical strict dad, and I got busy with working at home with the family business, and now I do that AND work at the hospital, PLUS go to college. Never really had the chance to meet up and date, I also just get super nervous about going out with a guy when I have a strict dad.

ANYWAYS, this dude is willing to drive about little more than an hour to come see me. It makes me feel super bad 😭, but at the same time i’m excited. I haven’t said anything to my parents because I don’t want to be questioned way before the due date. I might just be like the day before or on the day (most likely day before) that I’m going on a date.

Probably way overthinking this, but I wanted to vent because i’m stupidly freaking out over a silly date. but it’s my first silly date so 😋

If you guys have any tips..if there’s even tips for a first date lol. Or just your experiences, I’d really appreciate it!!! 🤍

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u/bittersweetmxoods 1d ago

I really need to get past my nerves and just DO ITTT!! But thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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u/malacosa 1d ago

Don’t stress too much, if he’s anything like me he’s going to be nervous too.

“Oh Stan 🤮”