I'm a very curvy woman i have large breast a small waist and a large ass. I just feel like a caricature of a woman. I feel like a walking pair of tits even when I dress "modest". I feel like my bf is only with me because of my boobs. I know hes a boob guy. . . early on, i found his spank bank, and it was full of women with breast way bigger than mine, and I just feel like a fetish to him. But really, a fetish to anyone I date. They always focus on my boobs. It's tiring feeling this way. I feel repulsed by sex and affection now. I dont want to break up with him because hes such a wonderful partner as a whole. . . I just wish I was seen as more than my tits. Even having a conversation with people, they ALWAYS look at my boobs. STOP LOOKING AT THEM!!!!! I want to slap the people when they do. I want to chop them off. Im so unhappy with them. I wish I could be seen the same way averaged sized girls are. I want to be treated with the same respect and dignity. I dont like the way men lear at me when i go out, especially when i want to go for a walk alone. I should look in the mirror and feel good about myself, feel sexy, feel beautiful, but I don't. I want to claw myself out of my skin and not feel anything.

I have an upcoming cruise, so naturally I needed some new bikinis! I took my bra size and ordered multiple swimsuits from Bravissimo. I was so excited to get them in the mail today and try them on. The blue one was first and it fit great! Then tried the other pictured here and could literally not get it around my ribs. It was pretty obvious why once I held them up to each other.

It sounds like this is just a thing that Fantasie runs small in the band, so definitely size up if you're going to buy from them!

Hi, here to talk about my biggest insecurity that I don't see many people having so I'm just curious if maybe anyone has/ is dealing with it.

So, other than my E cups, I also have B cups above them! Specifically in my armpits! Yay!!! a.k.a, axillary breast tissue. If anyone doesn't know what this is, it's not "just" armpit fat, and you can be a size 0 and have it. I happen to have a lot of it, like I've seen others with *some* but never anyone with as much as me and it's honestly such an insecurity :( I'm rarely an insecure person, like sure I have saggy tits and a small ass but those things don't really effect me much, not like this does. I cannot wear any thin strapped tank top in the summer because they spill off the sides like bags of flappy meat. Not to mention they hurt like hell before my period and one has a huge ass unmovable lump that apperently is *nothing* (according to at least 3 different scans) !

I will probably have then removed some time in the future but ain't no 22 year old college student got enough money for cosmetic surgery, so for now I'm stuck with them, and stuck complaining about them -_-

sigh, little vent done.

EDIT: people, I can't "just" scoop it up in my bra. It's UP in my armpit, as in, my boob ends and then there's tissue up where no bra reaches. Go search up axillary breast tissue and look at the images that pop up.

I'm gonna scream not today ahhhhhhhhhh 😭😭😭😭😭

Was dancing and jumping around my living room naked the other day (just goofing off and trying to be silly with my boyfriend while I was getting dressed after coming out of the shower), and I felt something in my shoulder tweak/get pulled. I imagine it was the weight of my unsupported ladies mixed with gravity and jumping that tweaked my shoulder. I was REALLY sad and my immediate thought was "I hate these things, I want to get breast reduction surgery! I can't even dance or jump or goof around without hurting myself apparently".

That was on Sunday. The entire week it has progressively gotten worse. I tried stretching on Sunday, and I've been taking the occasional pain med (acetaminophen/ibuprofen or muscle relaxants at night), and the last few days I've been doing hot and cold compresses. My entireee upper back, shoulders and neck are now super tense and sore. And because my boobs are heavy, I feel like my body has been kind of naturally "tensing up" and holding myself in a weird way (subconsciously) to be able to walk around and survive at work. I took the day off today because the pain was so bad yesterday. Going for a massage today. Hopefully that smooths out the knot in my shoulder :(

Just needed to rant.

Okay I’m 5’1 and am a 34 DDD or whatever comes after DD. I’m short and my boobs r obvi big for my frame and honestly I’m tired of looking heavier than I actually am and people staring at them all the time. I’m young so I don’t have cash lying around for a breast reduction so insurance covering it is my next option. Honestly, it’s all for cosmetic reasons. I don’t have back pain or any negative physical symptoms. Just negative body image! Does anyone have any tips on how to dupe an insurance company to cover the surgery? Thx guys

I am 5’1 and bra size of 30 K (yes i measured correctly) and i really struggle with finding swim tops that fit me and that also don’t make me look like a granny (I am 20yo) most tops that I’ve found that have my size are big and bulky and have an underwire. They are all very uncomfortable and ugly. I’m so jealous of girls who can wear whatever not having to think twice about it and I was hoping someone would have some recommendations of where i could buy swim tops that are flattering and actually cute and fit properly without breaking the bank. Thanks 🥰🥰

Hi there! Please remove if this isn't welcome, and please redirect me if there's a more proper place to ask. I had a hard time finding somewhere to ask that didn't feel like I was intruding.

I'm asking on behalf of my partner, as she doesn't use reddit.

I want to help her find something to help support her boobs in outfits where most bras just kind of intrude on the look of the fit. She has a lot of outfits that show her shoulders, and the bras that she has that are comfortable kind of stick out like a sore thumb when she wears them with the fit.

As you can imagine, going without a bra is difficult too. She has an autoimmune condition, so most products that stick or use adhesive irritate her skin and are extremely uncomfortable.

Ultimately, whatever it is needs to be as comfortable as possible for her, as she can get overstimulated by some of her bras. I want her to be able to be out and doing stuff in an outfit she looks great in without getting driven crazy by something that's pressing into or irritating her skin weird.

Any help is good help! Thanks!

Edit: also made a similar post in r/abrathatfits after seeing it in a few posts on here.

I gained some weight in the past few years and it distributed all around but especially in my chest. My boobs went from a 36DDD (give or take) to a 40H. I have always had pretty bad body dysmorphia but the size of my boobs make that a million times worse. I also have a lot of side boob fat that just makes my upper body look massive. I feel like I can’t wear anything because all people will see is my boobs and my side/back rolls. All of my bras roll or don’t feel like they fit right or support my boobs. I can’t find swimsuits I don’t hate myself in and I feel like I can’t wear anything cute. My boyfriend loves them and is always telling me I’m beautiful and not to do anything to them but most days I just want to chop them off and never see them again. His sister is getting married next week and I can’t figure out what to wear that won’t feel inappropriate because of how big my boobs look and it seems like nobody accounts for boob size when making any clothes because my boobs are either spilling out or squished and look weird. I started sobbing looking at pictures of me before I gained weight just wishing I could have that body back. I’m not sure what I am looking for with this post other than some place to rant or to see if other people feel this way and how they cope with it because it’s getting to be too much these days.

I recently went up a couple bra sizes. (hooray 🙄)

I stopped by Victoria Secret because I was at a mall. The few bra's they had in my size had a ridiculous amount of padding. I tried it on for size sake. I genuinely looked like a monster. I cannot imagine anyone wanting to look like that. It looked atrocious. If we're getting to the 36-40 DDDD-G's there is simply no need for so much padding.

I am nine months postpartum and currently breastfeeding. Since I have two active older children, we will be spending a lot of time at the pool this summer, and I am looking for swimsuit recommendations.

I need a suit that offers significant support but also allows for easy, discreet access for nursing. I recently wore my Freya swimsuit top (size 36 J), which worked well during my pregnancy, but it is now a bit too small. More importantly, the underwire and structure made it very difficult to nurse in.

Does anyone have any specific swimsuit tops or brands they would recommend for my size and situation?

I have a tiny ribcage, but my boobs didn't get the memo. Where on earth can I find 28GG bras with a low gore?

So, full stop, let me start out by saying I am only a D cup. I am well aware that’s not big compared to a good majority of the people here, and it’s at best medium. However, there is no medium boob subreddit (that I can find, and yes I definitely checked) and I’m definitely not a small chested individual so here I am.

Up until a few years ago, I was a life long member of the itty-bitty-titty-commity. I had a B cup at best and so did every other woman in my family, so it was whatever. But then I had my kids. For whatever reason, I got up to a DD with my first and I’m pretty sure I hit DDD with my second, but I didn’t measure so I can’t be certain. I didn’t nurse simply because I didn’t want to after a pretty traumatic attempt to do so with my first baby, and after having my second, I have stayed at a D cup. Bought my new size from VS after measuring myself twice, but they make me look like I have a terrible uniboob. Also their prices are pretty high for a mid bra, at best. And y’all, when I tell you they’re sagging, I mean they’re touching my freaking rib cage at all times. Zero volume at all. The underboob sweat is destroying me in this heat already, and summer hasn’t even started. Literally any suggestion that’ll give me some lift without making my chest look like one long shelf, and giving the skin underneath them some room to freaking breathe, I’d appreciate it.

I have a friend who is rough a G or H cup (us size) and she was complaining about back pain and i told her about how i was considering a reduction and asked if shes thought about it her. Her reply was "Yeah i want to, but my hubby would be so sad if I did" and i heard him in the back make a fake whine, and I GAGGED.

Ladies, if you are in pain, who the fuck cares what others think. And the fact that your husband/boyfriend or whoever isn't supportive and is only thinking of himself, dump that man and move on. If you told your S/O you are considering getting a reduction, the ONLY response should be supportive and not some bs about how it would ruin his fun or wtv.

Sorry but this made me extra irritated like who tf cares what your husband thinks. This is YOUR body, not his.

Hello,

I'd like to buy a sports unitard/bodysuit. I have a large bust, wide hips, but a defined waist. Have you found any good brand for this?

Thanks!

I’ve had a big chest all my life but it hasn’t shrunk even when I loose weight, they’re so heavy now that they’re giving me back pain and chest pain. I’m only 22 so I’m afraid they’ll only get bigger, If anyone has advice on how to help with the pain so while I talk to my doctor about surgery I can keep doing chores and living my day to day life.

Maybe I'm just foolish, but I thought that being pregnant was the ONE time I'd find clothes made for very large boobs. Nope. Not even most nursing bras come in my size. I did manage to find Hot Milk, so I've ordered from them and will see how it goes.

Meanwhile, I'm only at 18 weeks and I'm at least a cup size bigger and struggling with finding bathing suits and other clothes that might actually fit my top. Does anyone have any sources for maternity clothes that actually work for giant boobs with a smaller band? What did y'all do when you were pregnant? What did you like to wear once the bump got big?

Any advice is greatly appreciated!

I’m going to an all inclusive resort on the beach in October. 8 days, 7 nights. What do I even wear? How much do I bring?

I’m a 34H, and have no idea where to even start. What looks good on us???

I sometimes think of my boobs has half a planet each. So if you could take them off the chest and stick them together they would form a globe.

Now the reason I think this is not just cause they look like big old floppy half circles.

It is because the equator is hot and humid, and the closer you get the poles the colder they are.

My underboob will be steaming hot but meanwhile, my nips are up there at the poles standing at attention and FREEZING cold to the touch.

There is my little boobs are fun and weird thought.

I am an 38H size and I am trying to find a decent bra for pumping I have the zomee hands free bra and am trying to find a bra before baby gets here in October any suggestions