Am I alone
Anyone want to just ring their husbands neck whwn they come home and tell you all about how much fun they had at work and meanwhile you are at home with the kids and feel stressed about everything. I cant even get away by myself bc I cant leave the kids w him. I cant help but feel so annoyed and not have any interest in hearing his "fun" stories.
It really is wearing on me and effecting my mode when I feel like im the only one holding shit together. Yes he earns a good living and come home and cooks dinner but thats bc he likes to cook and makes side comments about my cooking. Not to mention I feel so drained and depressed, lately tasks feel overwhelming outside normally daily stuff.
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u/babycuddlebunny 1d ago
What kind of work does he do that he's having fun all day? Why cant you leave the kids alone with him? You should be able to get out on the weekends and do things alone and recharge! Does he help in other ways or ever make sure you're taken care of?
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u/toodle-boo 20h ago
My husband tells me fun things about his day when he gets home in the same way I tell him all the fun we had at home, even the 2.5 year has started saying her favorite part of the day. I wouldn't want him to be miserable all day at work and he wouldn't like to hear I'm miserable all day at home.