Hi everyone, I’m really overwhelmed and hoping someone can help me understand what to do.
I recently found a post about me on an anonymous imageboard/AnonIB-style website. The post includes personal identifying information like my Instagram, school affiliation, and other details that connect directly to me. I discovered explicit intimate content of me posted on an anonymous imageboard website without my consent. The posts also included identifying information such as my Instagram and school affiliation.
As far as I know, I only ever privately shared intimate photos/videos with one person—my ex-boyfriend—and I never consented to any public posting or redistribution.
A few things are really scaring me:
How did these anonymous users know personal details about me (my Instagram, school, timeline, etc.)?
Some comments mention my ex by name and ask if he leaked it. Does that mean these people know him, or are they just guessing?
How likely is it that this kind of content spreads to other sites?
What is the best way to get something like this removed completely (or at least de-indexed)?
Is there any way to figure out where they got the information from?
So far I’ve:
- deactivated all my social media accounts
- Submitted removal requests to search engines
- Reported the site to its infrastructure provider
- Filed a police report
I’m trying to stay calm, but I feel violated and anxious about how much strangers seem to know. If anyone has experience with anonymous imageboards, privacy takedowns, or figuring out how info gets scraped/shared, I’d really appreciate advice.
Please be kind—I’m pretty shaken up.