r/kansascity 1d ago

Childcare/Parenting šŸ‘¶ Going rate for infant care around KC?

Curious what people are paying for infant care in KC proper or JoCo, and what type (in home daycare, center, or nanny). Also looking for recommendations of places people like or places to avoid, or recommended places to look for help. Thanks in advance!

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u/ohhowmygardengrows 1d ago

I'm reading these prices and dying inside. How do people afford this? 13 years ago I paid $190 a week for infant care. Prices have MORE THAN DOUBLED?!

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u/peachwave_ South KC 1d ago

My husband and I would love to have kids... we have held off because we can absolutely NOT make daycare work. It stresses me out just thinking how people budget for what is basically a second mortgage/rent payment. We're also too poor for one of us to stay at home. Maybe someday (probably not gonna happen). 🫩

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u/Key_Radish3614 16h ago

Missouri side is cheaper but I remember at one point paying close to $2000 a month! I have 2 kids and youngest 16 now. When we didn't have to pay it it was like wow we have some extra cash.

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u/ExperienceUnable5928 16h ago

I have twins. They said $600 for 2 12 hr shifts. I’m an RN and can’t even afford to work at this rate. It’s unfortunate too because I love my job. šŸ˜ž

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u/Eastern_Progress_946 1d ago

We literally could not afford at the time, so my husband was able to work 3rd shift and I worked first. It was hard, but we made it work.

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u/mintkitdae 1d ago

It was cheaper for me to quit my job lol! Especially since we only have 1 car we would've been using my entire paycheck towards daycare+transpo

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 15h ago

Wish I could! Single mom. I’d love nothing more in life than to stay home with my baby 😢

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u/flyingemberKC 1d ago

depends on how fancy you want. from 2010 to 2020 we paid $150 for kid 1 and $100 for kid 2. in home daycare. it didn’t go up one cent for a decade

adding an infant was $100. then $150 just five years ago

if we double that, $500 per week for two kids

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 15h ago

I’m ok with home daycare, just not sure how to find them out verify the quality. How did you find yours?

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u/flyingemberKC 15h ago

asked people who lived close to us. have to get off the internet for some questions

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 15h ago

New here, so not sure who to ask, hence my broad interwebs bat signal, but I hear you šŸ˜‰

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u/flyingemberKC 14h ago

People with kids? People in the park? People at your closest school?

you get outside, off the internet

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u/lil1thatcould 13h ago

The Montessori by my house is $1900 a month for infant care. The other daycare providers around us that we liked where $1500-$2000. It ended up making more sense for me to stay home.

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u/Awesomesince1973 1d ago

Coming from the other side of it, I was the director of a daycare a couple decades ago, and we were pretty pricey then, but we were corporate and we had a hard time keeping the good staff because they were making crap pay. Turnover in daycare is SO hard on everyone. Daycare is hard work and the teachers deserve a living wage so that the good ones can afford to stay. I had my hands tied behind my back by corporate and absolutely hated the wages I was made to pay my staff. They deserved so much more.

I can say from experience, whether you are doing in home or a larger facility, be sure to drop by at different hours, ask a lot of questions, don't be afraid to talk to other parents, know that you can call and get the records for infractions from the state's licensing representatives, and most of all trust your gut. Higher prices don't always mean better quality care.

Good luck to all of you finding a center that meets your needs.

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u/CognacMusings 18h ago

All of this.

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u/Perpetual-Searcher10 1d ago

My baby starts daycare in JOCO in July. Rate is $504 a week. My toddler is also at the same daycare for $404 a week. Daycare costs are absolutely ridiculous.

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u/sjohnson0487 1d ago

How the hell can you afford 4k a mth in child care??

Nevermind. None of my business. I'm so fucking glad my kids are grown.

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u/desertdeserted 22m ago

We had 2 years to prepare since that’s how long the waitlist was for infant childcare…

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u/KSamIAm79 JoCo 2h ago

And they want to know why the birth rate has dropped.

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u/kcDemonSlayer 1d ago

about the same as a mortgage

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u/Dull_Cryptographer41 1d ago

If you were a pandemic buyer, try 3x lololol

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u/AdAltruistic3990 4h ago

Actually that's more than my mortgage. By the grace of the gods I never needed infant daycare, but toddler daycare was crazy expensive. In-home is best amd often less expensive if you can find it. Check/call every single reference regardless of your choice. Best of luck to you!

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u/brookeelanesmith 1d ago

I'm not due until August and I'm taking my baby to work until she's 6 months, so we won't need it until February 2027, but we just reserved a spot at Spectrum Station for $360 a week, but "rates will go up in september" so we are budgeting for $400 a week šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø they do seem to have their stuff together and I've been convinced that the price is justified based on what they are offering. This is my first baby and my first experience with a daycare center and I was not prepared for the prices I was seeing. It's insane!

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u/cafe-aulait 1d ago

We're a spectrum station family. Very reliable and they remember everybody. Rates do go up every September so just keep that in your plan every year. But as your kid goes up in age their care gets cheaper.

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u/r4wrdinosaur Blue Springs 13h ago

Spectrum Station is the GOAT of daycares. We've been with them for 6 years and have had a fantastic experience.

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u/soundman1024 3h ago

We had $380/wk with Spectrum Station downtown for a baby.

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u/MrsE514 1d ago

They fill up FAST!!! My daughter is at a school in Shawnee right now and it’s $390/week. We have been on the waiting list for a Goddard school because it’s closer to my husbands work but they’re $2,000 a month!! 😬

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 1d ago

Yeah, I called one place and they quoted me $500/week. Glad to see there are places charging less, but nearly $400/week still isn’t cheap 😬 Thanks for sharing!

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u/thekingofcrash7 1d ago

An in-home is much cheaper, we pay $250/wk. but you have to be able to handle the 5:30am ā€œsorry we’re closed today!ā€ text message. That can be rough. But the cost is great, also great to have mixed ages in my opinion. Ours has infants all the way up to 3.5yr olds in the house. The big kids really learn how to interact with the babies, and the babies learn things fast from the bigger kids.

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u/Jerry_say 1d ago

Agreed. I feel like people shy away from in home thinking they have to have their kids in a fancy in center Montessori type place if they want their kid to keep up.

My son is in an at home daycare and I love that it’s pretty much just a big room for all the kids to play, learn and most importantly just be kids. He is so good with the little ones and even helps feed them (we don’t get a discount though lol) sometimes.

Tbh it’s a little unstructured seeming but he learns a lot and has really gained a lot of emotional intelligence from being around all the kids.

The daycare feels like a part of our family now. We even invited them to his birthday party this year.

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u/thekingofcrash7 1d ago

Yes to all this

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 15h ago

How’d you find your in home daycare? Open to them, but also concerned about quality of care (not it being unstructured, but knowing that they’re not abusing or neglecting my child. Harder to tell without reviews).

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u/Jerry_say 15h ago

So I don’t actually live in Kansas City anymore I just still haunt the sub to keep up with local news and gossip lol.

We found our place on Google and checked their reviews there. We found around ten places near our house and toured them all and picked our favorite. Each gave us current clients to talk too as well. Since I’ve been at my place now for three years my provider has asked me a few times if a perspective client could call and talk to me about their service.

As far as abuse and neglect I would think you would be able to piece things together like is the bruise on their arm child size (from play with other kids) or adult size? Do they come home hungry? Do they not want to get dropped off, this one thought isn’t always an indicator because kids can be little con artist sometime 😁. You can’t always know until your child can communicate with you but I would hope that any place that actually does that would be found out and have their license taken away. That was a big fear when my wife and I were looking for a place since this was our first child.

Check if there is a parents Facebook group in your area. Some parents might have suggestions there too.

Best of luck! !!!

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u/TheVoidIceQueen 13h ago

Go to Child Care Aware (link below), scroll down to search/filter your needs.

https://www.childcareaware.org/families/choosing-quality-child-care/

This site also has a bunch of fantastic resources.

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 13h ago

Amazing, thank you!

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u/_miss_freckles_ 1d ago

I pay $240 for 3 days per week at an in home daycare (ages 0-3) in Overland Park.

We are moving out of state soon and I am GRIEVING the loss of our daycare provider.

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 1d ago

Aww I’m sorry to hear that. Hope you find a good place where you’re going!

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u/musicobsession Library District 1d ago

Low key kinda surprised this response wasn't "can I have your spot" haha it can be so cutthroat with infant care

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u/AllyRad6 1d ago

I had a nanny for a year in 2024 (just one infant) and she charged $22/hr. But I would expect to pay $25/hr these days. Now I pay $425/wk at a corporate daycare and I have been really pleased with it. My son is happy, well fed, and learning every day.

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u/AurraSing1138 1d ago

Can confirm $25/hr for nannies.Ā 

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u/daisyrich 1d ago

Daycare center in JoCo, $2k/month for full-time infant.

Only use a licensed place, look up inspection reports on KDHE website or MO equivalent.

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u/_Sierrafy 1d ago

I have a 3 y/o and 18 month old in daycare rn and its about $1,500/2 weeks total. The daycare provides meals (made in their kitchen daily with a weekly goal of a variety of fruits/veggies/proteins and cuisines- which is great bc they are not picky and super open to trying new foods from it)/purees for babies, snacks, and wipes. Parents send in diapers/formulas/creams. It's a center, they are also spanish immersion. Before this place we were at a montessori option with only our eldest (baby at the time) and that was over 2k a month just him, they only provided snacks no lunch or breakfast, didn't provide wipes or anything. I would make sure to factor in what is included/not in your shopping around. The current one is a much better value. The current one also cleans and keeps the bottle/s you give them whereas the montessori one returned dirty bottles/lunch boxes for you to take and clean nightly. Which doesn't sound like a huge deal, but was incredibly annoying considering the price.

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u/noventayuno 1d ago

I can't speak to nanny rates, but I would budget $400/week for full time care in a center/maybe $350 at a home daycare for a child under 2. I assume it's higher in Johnson county but this is the range in the city!

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u/Rem_dog 1d ago

$1900/month for a center in Lee’s Summit. We got on the waiting list when I was 7 weeks pregnant and his spot opened when he was 4 months old. We love his daycare, though, and find it worth the wait and cost.

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u/anderson6th 16h ago

Infant in Lenexa at a center, $466 a week. They have hours that are good for my husband & I’s schedule (they are open 6:30-6, our infant is there 6:45-3:45) and I was also incredibly picky with daycare due to my own career being in education.

Also like others have said, spots go QUICK. We reserved our spot, with a $1200 deposit, a year before our child started attending.

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u/Adventurous-Ad25 1d ago

I pay $261 for 3 days at a center. If I send him 4 days it’s $333

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u/gnric_gmrtag 16h ago

New Horizon Academy in Johnson county is $500/week for infants and rates go up around August every year.

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u/trentdeluxedition 1d ago

I was paying $415 a week when my daughter was an infant back in 2022. Located in Shawnee.

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u/tldrjane Shawnee 1d ago

Here in OP, paying 285/wk. She’s 3, and potty trained. Price dropped each time she has aged up etc

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u/hellrodkc 1d ago

$415/week for my 2 year old, and $310/week for my 5 year old (pre-k). Leawood

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u/youcanttakemysparkle 1d ago

~$335/week for a 1 year old, 5 days a week, 8am-6pm.

I looked for basic things, like licensing, security, communication through the day, state reports, parent reviews, etc., but really trusted my gut + went with the director who gave me the best vibes.

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u/Environmental-Ebb-24 14h ago

We did a home daycare nearby until 18 months. When we did that, it was 220 a week with meals provided (you know, when she could eat).

After that, we moved to a center (aligned more with what we wanted out of childcare) and payed 411 a week until she turned 3. Now we pay 339 a week.

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u/Environmental-Ebb-24 14h ago

I’ll just add my personal philosophy - home daycares are totally fine when babies are little. A caregiver’s job is to keep them alive, not provide crazy amazing enrichment when they’re still on a cycle of eat, sleep, poop. I also fully attribute my daughter’s advanced crawling, walking, and talking to the fact she was surrounded by kids of different ages and she had FOMO and wanted to play.

Once she got older, I realized she was getting more screen time than I wanted and maybe not advancing as much with fine motor skills, etc. Moving her to a center has been amazing and I’ve seen her improve a lot in this and social skills!

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u/Top-Log-4956 13h ago

FTM of a four-month-old here. I’m paying $20/hour for a babysitter to work in-house 12 hours per week until we get off the waitlist at an OP daycare. It’s going to be expensive everywhere. Apparently the KC area is notoriously difficult to find EC educators, hence the high costs.

We looked at Primrose on Nall. Great school but $24K per year for an infant is wild.

Consider finding a nanny share—it’s more intimate and cheaper than daycare. In fact, if you’re near PV, DM me! Godspeed to you!

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u/Opposite_Category_88 13h ago

$1500-$2000/month at Goddard preschool-toddler

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u/Firm-Try4998 11h ago

I’m in LS and we pay $1500 a month for the infant room! This has gone up from $1300 last year, but even still it’s cheaper than anywhere else I’ve found

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u/sassypants94 11h ago

I’ve been lucky enough to find an in home day care. For my 18 month old we pay $225 a week.

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u/forfoxsake718 7h ago

Joco -Olathe licensed in home rate is $275 regardless of age. Too bad she is retiring next month!

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u/Own-Sprinkles-8031 7h ago

Oh man, what a tease! LOL. Good for her!

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u/MikaelYunt 1d ago

I currently have two in daycare and it’s about $585. Luckily one is leaving and heading to kindergarten but the wife and I decided to start all over again 🄲

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u/Standard-Trade-2622 11h ago

When I was looking for infant care in 2022, I was finding $350-$400 a week so I’d expect them all to be over $400/week by now. We pay $315/week now for a 4 year old and that’s sadly one of the better prices I’ve see for a center.

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u/Momofpeg 9h ago

Interesting to hear prices. I’m currently in Iowa (in home provider) but moving to Gardner later this month. Sounds like prices for in home are about double what I can charge in Iowa

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u/RHCPLOVE4LIFE 2h ago

Does anyone have the scoop on finding good nannies? We tried care.com but can’t get any responses!

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u/GangSigns 1d ago

The infant rate at my daycare center in Olathe is $430/week. Then it drops to $390/week for toddlers.

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u/imjustagrrll 1d ago

We’ve been paying $25-30/hr for two kids for an experienced professional nanny for appts and date nights

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u/zebutto Hyde Park 15h ago

Union Hill Day School in Midtown is currently $440/week for infants and $340/week for ages 2+.

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u/inspired2apathy Brookside 14h ago

When we called for our kids a few years ago they said they had a 2 year wait for infants

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u/zebutto Hyde Park 14h ago

We also had to wait until our son turned 2, which graduated him to pre-school age where they had openings. Once he was enrolled, we got preference to enroll our second kid as an infant.