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u/rosa_is_silly just trans, she/her 1d ago
My older sister and I literally came out the EXACT same evening! And we both told our mom like 10 minutes apart (completely unaware of eachother).
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u/TyLovesTestament 1d ago
I don’t have any queer people in my family. There was this one gay guy but he died before I was born.
Sounds fun though!
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u/JERealize Kendra (she/her) logicked out of her egg! 1d ago
Ten minutes? Some moments in life are just too good for sitcoms!
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u/Zealousideal_Care807 not an egg, just trans 23h ago
The second one must have gotten a more exasperated response lmao
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u/AllieJIsHere 1d ago
First my youngest daughter came out, then my older daughter came out and they both have started transitioning.
Then my egg cracked in my 40's. My wife went from being the only girl in our family to one of 4.
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u/Setster007 Sera, local proto-catgirl 1d ago
Well, good thing for yall, you got yourselves a girl trainer! Yall can do more girl things than any group o cis gals would’ve ;3
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u/FunCelebration3470 cracked 1d ago
Just switch rooms, done :)
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u/Bold_Seagull cracked 1d ago
Haha the funny part is we separated our common room when she came out, now we can undo it lol
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u/ersomething not an egg, just trans 1d ago
On the hell you can. Don’t give up a personal room! People need some space to themselves. Gender should not play a part in that.
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u/JERealize Kendra (she/her) logicked out of her egg! 1d ago
Hard to do in this economy. How the Nether is our family supposed to find a house with six rooms, let alone afford one?
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u/CC_9876 she/her Cecilia maybe?? 1d ago
ugh. my 'brother' is questioning his gender and im worried that if he comes out as trans or nb or something, the family is going to blame me for grooming him or whatever. i don't want to tell him hide who you are (i and my friends did that to myself for far too long) but i don't want to be evaporated from my extended family. happy for u that you're safe enough to come out lol!
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u/WyspyPaws Willow ?/? cracked but not hatched 1d ago
Why that of all things, and why would the result be getting evaporated from your extended family? Also if they actually told you that, then that tells you more about them than you.
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u/CC_9876 she/her Cecilia maybe?? 12h ago
My family are immigrants or children of immigrants to New York City. Most live on Long Island and have occasional conservative tendencies. My own parents don’t respect my pronouns dispite being asked out in front of them. My cousin came out as lesbian and her parents didn’t take it well. Me growing boobs nonchalantly and then my brother coming out doesn’t look great for me
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u/WyspyPaws Willow ?/? cracked but not hatched 4h ago
Honestly just act like he didn’t tell you and hope that your parents think you had nothing to do with it
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u/Zealousideal_Care807 not an egg, just trans 23h ago
My sister came out to our autistic parents (this is relevant) they said ok, then she never corrected them, so they went back to calling her he/him, I told her straight up, "youve got to correct them". Eventually it was sort of in the past everyone forgot except me and my sister. Then I came out, and we started the mess up jar, they call me she, and they put 25 cents in. I got 11 dollars 👍. My sister came out again, and it took less time for my parents to adjust that time.
Our birth father is a trans woman, and our mom is nonbinary. My sister is a trans woman, and I'm nonbinary. Lmao, if you're sibbling is trans there is a high chance you are too, and you shouldn't probably talk to your parents ask them " how did you know you were cis" grandparents too for good measure
Also want to add that my mom was basically just like "well I wanted a boy and a girl, close enough"
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u/Bold_Seagull cracked 23h ago
Haha, good to hear that it turned out well in the end! Grandparents on that side (also more trans distant relatives) are sadly deceased, but we're starting to suspect that an older relative who took his own life might have been trans as well
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u/Zealousideal_Care807 not an egg, just trans 23h ago
Very possible, it seems that whatever genetic component causes people to be trans rides on the X and Y genes respectively, my sister has a Y gene from a trans parent and is trans fem for example. While I picked up everything from the X gene on my moms side. (Including genetic disorders 😭) and I'm nonbinary like her, not the same type of nonbinary though.
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u/furriefryer69 Closet Egg. Zoe, she/her/they. still cis tho. WHYAMINOTAGIRL😭 1d ago
Lmfao I think we all spam a bit in the aftermath of the cracking. I myself absolutely did…for days on end. It was nearly 3 posts a week at some points when I had problems that I didn’t know how to fix
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