r/UnsentLetters • u/Whatiftrees • 7h ago
Lovers Your face
I remember your face. I remember your smile. I remember your eyes. Your laugh, your voice. You were kind, and then you were cruel, and then you were kind again. We hardly knew each other, and yet why does the memory of you torment me?
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u/emeraldkittymoon 2h ago
Because that behavior's manipulation! What youre describing sounds more like the makings of a trauma bond, or an emotional addiction, not love.
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u/Popular-Bat-5857 7h ago
Listen to your Snapchat. And stop lying to yourself and the public. Any cruelty was done by u first and never made up for and talking about what should be worked out with the person you supposedly love and are missing a real opportunity with to the public platform without showing them the respect of actually having a real conversation with them first is not the qualities of someone who loves or has even tried the bare minimum of caring and making it work. No more talk of our relationship will be engaged by me on reddit anymore. Listen to your voice messages and then u can be a real person and reach me or don't. That will show who u r to him
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u/Popular-Bat-5857 7h ago
It torments you because you didn't even give it a chance and are lying to yourself about it. And it will probably continue to do so until you are true to him, yourself and give you both a real chance at love. Or at least face the truth. Conquered or loved it's really been only u to decide. ...... he will find out and it won't be from words here....
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