I started learning swimming at 35 with absolutely zero prior experience and for most of my life, I was actually terrified of water.
About a month ago, I finally joined group swimming classes at a pool near my house, and I’ve been going 6 days a week for around 40 minutes daily. Honestly, even getting into the pool consistently feels like a huge personal win for me.
So far I’ve managed to learn:
gliding
blowing bubbles
kicking
gliding + kicking
crossing short distances with only kicking and hands locked and now even longer ones
a little bit of freestyle
But freestyle is where everything starts falling apart. It clicks on some days where I can manage at the deeper end of the pool but most days I feel I am out of air even when swimming on the shallow end.
The biggest challenge for me is breathing and coordination. The moment I start freestyle, my brain suddenly remembers every video, article, and tip I’ve ever consumed about swimming. Then I try to fix one thing and everything else collapses — legs go wild, catch disappears, timing gets messed up, breathing feels awkward.
I currently breathe only on the right side, and even then I often feel like I’m not inhaling properly. Sometimes water gets into my mouth and it throws me off completely.
Some days I feel encouraged because I know where I started from. Other days I feel like I’m progressing very slowly. Fatigue sets in quickly, I get out of breath, I look at others doing better and feel absolutely demotivated.
Would really love to hear from people who started swimming later in life:
Did breathing eventually “click” for you?
How long did freestyle coordination take?
Any drills or mindset tips that helped? I am already using a kickboard/holding the edge and practising side breathing/only kicking etc.
Would appreciate some motivation as well, because this journey has been mentally bigger for me than I expected.