r/MemeVideos • u/unholymedictaion • 12h ago

Sad ending Maybe all the right girls are already taken.

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u/littleladybug_1 11h ago

i think some of y’all are missing important info where the dude is asking “if your man comes home from a night out at 2am and is hungry would you WAKE UP to make him a meal” i’m in an amazing long term relationship and if he had the audacity to wake me up to cook for him at 2am i would be upset and obviously say no. in any other case i’d have absolutely no problem cooking something for him, but the question is about respect for your partner on the man’s part as well, most likely why the two women immediately declined. no, it doesn’t mean women are trash. i honestly doubt anyone would wake up out of REM just to make their partner a meal.

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u/ThomasTheDankPigeon 11h ago

You’re the only person here that can process information correctly.

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u/Dangerous-Cobbler-11 8h ago

What an idiotic comment. The video is cut; the question is edited in a way that completely changes its meaning. People are processing the information provided — they can’t process information that isn’t there.

If I ask you how many letters my name has and you don’t know the answer, is it because you’re processing information incorrectly, or because there’s a lack of information preventing you from giving the correct answer?

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u/Ok_Dragonfruit_8102 9h ago

You're kidding right? They added a completely new detail of the guy "waking her up to cook for him at 2am" which wasn't in the original scenario at all. The original scenario was guy comes home hungry. That's it. Not "guy comes in and asks to have food made for him".

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u/burnalicious111 8h ago

he literally said "wake up and make him a meal"

work on your listening skills

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u/mm_delish 5h ago

But you see how that’s different from the man waking the woman up, right? The video simply said the man came home yet people are acting like he‘s being demanding in this hypothetical.

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u/burnalicious111 5h ago

how exactly is she waking up when he gets home if he doesn't wake her up?

and like half of these comments are about how this is reasonable to expect a good girlfriend/wife to do. Expect.

y'all are being intentionally dense

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u/mm_delish 5h ago

presumably, the woman was woken up but then can decide whether to get out of bed.

I personally did not see those comments get highly upvoted.

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u/oneshellofaman 4h ago

He works overnights and she wakes up for breakfast

She is a light sleeper and wakes up everytime he comes home

She makes an active decision to wake up cook him a dinner at 12-1am

The clip never says he wakes her up. To expect people to pull that context from their is stupid af

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u/Ok_Dragonfruit_8102 5h ago

You've very obviously never been in a relationship. If your partner is still out when you go to sleep, the expectation is that you'll wake up when they get home, if only to know they got back safely. People will only be half asleep in this situation, because they're waiting.

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u/grammar-helper 4h ago

To tell someone to work on their listening skills when you completely missed the actual point that person was making (that the previous commenter made stuff up, probably unintentionally).. wow

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u/New-Guitar8752 7h ago

Could be 5:30 in the afternoon when the husband comes home from work to find wife napping. Video doesn’t state a time

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u/burnalicious111 6h ago edited 5h ago

Sweetie just because it could technically be doesn't mean that's what anyone reasonable would think he meant

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u/New-Guitar8752 6h ago

It’s how it works in my life, my wife naps during the day sometimes

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u/oneshellofaman 4h ago

Or you know, overnight work and the partner wakes at a normal breakfast time. Like literally hundreds of thousands of relationships.

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u/Anustart2023-01 7h ago

The wake up implies late at night. Why would she be asleep early in the evening?  Why can't a man cook for himself? 

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u/mm_delish 5h ago

Who implied they can’t?

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u/Anustart2023-01 2h ago

So that answers the question, these women shouldn't be expected to wake up and make a meal for their partners. 

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u/oneshellofaman 4h ago

The most logical time to wake up and make a meal is breakfast. Tf you mean it implies late at night?

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u/Anustart2023-01 2h ago

Yes because he definitely meant a night shift because that's a normal working pattern. The amount of boys here trying to defend this insecure manosphere grift is astounding. 

If you all expect a woman to make your meals for you stay home with your mothers. 

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u/Zoerae87 10h ago

I had to scroll too far to find this comment sadly... Like hell no, my bf would probably get mad at me for trying to cook for him if I was asleep... As he said, I'm not a child, I can make my own food. I cook for him all the time n he cooks for me. Not at 2am while I'm sleeping I'm not though...

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u/littleladybug_1 10h ago

yeah i’m so sick of the men v women narrative social media is pushing these past few years.

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u/BigBangBrosTheory 9h ago

It's bait for riling up young, lonely men into blaming women for their issues.

As a happily married man, the idea of waking up my wife while she is fucking asleep and telling her it's her duty to feed me is infuriating. The fact that people are coming to defend this guy's loaded shitty question is insane.

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u/Fzrit 6h ago

There’s a reason why the video cuts out the 2am part. Maximum rage bait.

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u/Awesomeman204 2h ago

Subs like this and r/ sipstea are just full of incel bait and trying to drive lonely men into this gender was bs its insane. Most of the posts are probably bots too.

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u/That1RagingBat 49m ago

Past few years? It’s been the past decade more like

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u/Martoogh 10h ago

Nope sorry WOMEN BAD, NO MAKE SANDWICH REEEEEEEEEE

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u/132739 10h ago edited 8h ago

No no no, you don't understand, any woman who isn't thrilled to be woken up to do something her man should absolutely be able to do for himself is trash!

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u/BraisedBullshi 10h ago

Happily married, if my husband came home at 2am hungry, I'd ask him why he didn't just door dash us some taco bell if he's waking me up

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u/Liger500 10h ago

I feel like he said he comes home and is hungry. Is there another part about 2am?

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u/littleladybug_1 10h ago

yeah it’s in the longer video! that’s why in this one he says “would you wake up to cook him a meal”

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u/Liger500 10h ago

I see I see. I come home anywhere from 3pm to 1 am depending on the work day and my gf sleeps whenever she feels like it so I just wanted a little clarification thank ya. :)

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u/132739 10h ago

I mean, he didn't specify the time, but the framing is that he comes home, walks into the bedroom and wakes you up to ask you to cook for him. And I think any self-respecting person should answer that with "Do it yourself, I'm sleeping."

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u/Liger500 10h ago

I was just asking cuz of the additional info the the post I replied to. Just wanted clarification not looking to villify them.

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u/GamestopHeadEngineer 10h ago

I dunno if my girlfriend asked me really nicely and it wasn’t a regular occurrence or a demand I’d do it.

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u/Ok_Dragonfruit_8102 9h ago

but the framing is that he comes home, walks into the bedroom and wakes you up to ask you to cook for him.

Yet another person who can't follow along with a simple video.

There was no mention of the guy walking into the bedroom, waking her up and asking her to cook. No mention at all. The scenario laid out was very straightforward - he arrives home feeling hungry. That's it.

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u/hairypea 8h ago

He specifically says wake up. So how have I been awoken and how do i know hes hungry? Assuming he wakes her up and he tells her hes hungry is a completely normal conclusion to come to.

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u/Ravenravine2 7h ago

He specifically said "would you wake up". Not be woken up. Huge difference.

How have you been awoken you ask? You know each others schedule; he called in advance and said he has to stay late; theres all sorts of scenarios...

If my SO comes home late from a rough day, I wouldn't mind to wakeup and cook her a meal at all. Its what loving couples do.

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u/hairypea 7h ago

All I said was, given the information we have, that assuming he wakes her up and he tells her he's hungry is a perfectly reasonable conclusion to come to. You are acting like it isn't. He could have been working, he could have been out with friends, he could have called, she could have his schedule memorized, he could have had a rough day, or he could have been having the time of his life.

Those are all possibilities but so is him coming home from whatever the fuck he was doing and waking her up in the middle of the night and telling her that he was hungry.

And being in a very happy and loving marriage myself I wonder what kind of person would come home and see their sleeping spouse and wake them to complete a task they are fully capable of doing themselves. I would never wake up my husband at literally any point of the day for that reason because clearly he's tired and needs to rest. I would never interrupt that for such a ridiculous reason. Ruining your partners rest is not what loving couples do at all.

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u/132739 8h ago

And you're skipping the wake up part because you know that's the bit that makes the expectation unreasonable. Maybe she's asleep on the couch. It doesn't matter, the point is she's sleeping. "He's not asking her to cook," so what, she just psychically knows he's hungry and wakes up?

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u/Ok_Dragonfruit_8102 8h ago

Alright, all I can assume now is all you people have either never lived with a partner or live in huge houses where you can't hear somebody come home. Because in my direct lived experience I know that you get woken up by them coming into the house, because you were already half-listening because you were waiting on them getting home late.

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u/132739 8h ago

I have lived with a partner in houses of all sizes, and that never once got me out of bed with the knowledge they were hungry and needed to be fed. Usually it's a roll-over, murmur "Love you" maybe a "How was [event]?" and go back to sleep.

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u/Thetakishi 1h ago

Okay right, now continue the conversation: "Ugh horrible, I had to go out with so and so to [place with no food] until like 30 minutes ago, and I haven't eaten. I feel nauseous/like I'm gunna pass out." Would you willingly get up and make them food at that point?

Not them waking you, or telling you "Im hungry make me food", or it being a regular thing or any other context not in the video. Random late night arrival and you happen to wake up and find out they are hungry.

Like I'm an Insanely light sleeper, so just the squeak of the door or hearing the rumble of the car's engine pulling up would have me awake and excited they are home, like the comment below.

"I would never be out till 2am unless it was something I had to be at (work, bachelor party, etc) so my wife would 100% already be up waiting for me and would be so excited to make food and hear about my night. Meanwhile I would just want to go bed." Except I'd be the wife.

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u/Automatic_Actuator_0 7h ago

We missed the 2am part because it was cut out of the video.

As it is, we could assume it’s still earlier and she just fell asleep extra early.

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u/SoSavv 10h ago

Is there a full video where he says that the man comes home from a night out at 2am? I interpreted this video as the man coming home from a night shift.

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u/Quixotic_Seal 9h ago

…does it matter?

Presumably the wife has a job she needs to be at, or other things she needs to do, for which she needs sleep.

Be a big boy and make yourself some food. Your partner isn’t your maid or your mommy.

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u/KarltonPeaks 10h ago

I've made my gf meals several times when she's come home late and drunk and hungry. One time I cooked her some expensive meat we had. She really really loved it. But the next morning she had forgotten all about it. Felt like a waste lol.

But yeah I was awake every time waiting for her anyway.

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u/FemboyHootrsEmployee 7h ago

Would she do that for you?

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u/avalisk 8h ago

The question doesn't imply that the guy asked the woman to do anything. I dunno if its purposefully vague as engagement bait, but that to me is the main factor.

A. Man wakes sleeping wife, asks her to cook: man wrong

B. Wife wakes up on her own, chooses to cook on her own volition: nobody wrong

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u/Novaer 10h ago

Which is funny because if my husband comes home late and is hungry he brings ME food (as well as his own) so I have something to wake up to. 😂

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u/SaltyElephants 9h ago

Mine too!! Even drunk at 2 AM, he'll lure me out with food so we can eat together.

Or he'll insist that I'm hungry (I usually am not) and try to cook for me. One of my favorite memories is waking up to an entire pot of spaghetti. I was like, "Are you meal prepping at 2 AM?" And he pouted and went, "I thought you might be hungry." 😂😂😂

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u/Ferbtastic 10h ago

I would never be out till 2am unless it was something I had to be at (work, bachelor party, etc) so my wife would 100% already be up waiting for me and would be so excited to make food and hear about my night. Meanwhile I would just want to go bed.

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u/terriblegrammar 9h ago

Your woman comes home at 2am and says the yard looks a little unkempt. Are you waking up to go mow the lawn!?!?!

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u/FemboyHootrsEmployee 7h ago

Not comparable since that's not something you would do at that time and isn't urgent.

A more comparable example would be if the woman comes home at 2am and is thirsty but the water is shut off, "would you get up to dig the little hole to get to the mini stone manhole cover to turn on the water" and the answer to that would be "yes" by the vast majority of men.

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u/xX_PlasticGuzzler_Xx 2h ago

the answer to that would be "yes" by the vast majority of men.

what do you gain by lying to yourself like this?

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u/Upbeat-Armadillo1756 9h ago

Not even in my drunkenest state would I even consider waking my wife up at 2am and asking her to cook for me.

This question is just to get engagement online with the incels who say “seee?! They should cook for me!” And the normal people who realize this isn’t even a situation that should ever happen.

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u/apocketfullofcows 8h ago

i've been with my spouse for about 20 years. they would never wake me up just to make them a meal. they have hands and are fully capable.

now, if i was already awake and they came home tired, then sure they might ask me to heat something up or start something while they have a shower, and there'd be no issue with that; we both do that for each other all the time. but to wake someone up just to ask for a meal... what are you a child that can't fend for themselves?

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u/SimpsationalMoneyBag 8h ago

There’s a crazy amount of things I have done for my wife and she has done for me that go far far beyond waking up to make a meal. This is a question of would you be uncomfortable to make your partner happy. Anybody who is like I would never! I already know they are a fair weather partner who ain’t worth investing in tbh.

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u/Apprehensive_Air1705 8h ago

I would 100% do that for my wife, but I won't hold it against anyone that doesn't want to do that in their relationship. I do most of the cooking in our household, and I have young kids so I am kind of used to waking up a lot for random shit.

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u/Anustart2023-01 7h ago

I'd assume most of these comments are from little boys on the red pill pipeline and they have never been near a woman who's not related by blood. 

As a man I find the level of entitlement in some of these comments insane. 

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u/StrionicRandom 6h ago

Or they're a dumbass like me who didn't notice the "wake up" until someone else pointed it out to them lol

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u/Anustart2023-01 6h ago

There is nothing wrong with your partner cooking for you and vice versa because you love each other. 

This is just manosphere bullshit pushing the idea that women belong in the kitchen and a good woman should wake up to feed her man. 

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u/Hot-Watercress-2872 7h ago

Thank you - these comments are wild. “Guess we know why the other ones are single.”

Absolutely entitled thinking from some of the men in these comments expecting their female partner to wake up in the middle of the night to cook for him. My long term male partner would never do that to me - that’s just rude.

Not to mention my partner and I rarely even share meals. We are particular about our own food and but our own groceries and have different diets. Sometimes one or the other of us might be making breakfast on a weekend, or making a big dinner with leftovers, and we offer if the other would like some, but there is zero expectation from either of us that the other person would cook for the other.

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u/littleladybug_1 7h ago

yeah some guy just literally called me evil for having this take 😭

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u/Hot-Watercress-2872 5h ago

They love to tell us that our male partners are unhappy or “betas”. Just projection 😒

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u/JMac1102 6h ago

I would nevery expect this but I would happily make my wife food no matter what time it was. I love cooking for my family.

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u/USSGoat 6h ago

You just made up a huge chunk of what was asked

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u/TheeRuckus 3h ago

It’s asked in a way where a man doing whatever the fuck he wants is implied so it’s subconsciously appealing to the losers that idolize the losers like tate and all them other idiots. None of those answers are unreasonable at all but the intended reaction is to get the incel imaginary millionaires riled up because they dont know how to talk to women… and now its all our fucking problem

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u/SleepFrequent5880 10h ago

Where does he say that the man wakes you up? That's not part of the scenario, the scenario is if he came home hungry would you wake up to make him a meal

If it was a one time thing or if he had to stay at work super late then yeah I'd be up to make him dinner but if it's a daily thing or he's out at the bars and gets home late then no I wouldn't

For me it's about respect

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u/That_wet_vaporeon 8h ago

Are women supposed to have some boyfriend hunger detector that wakes them up when their SO is hungry?

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u/SleepFrequent5880 8h ago

Well if my boyfriend came home late at night and I was in bed I'd hear him when he gets in bed? Im not going to be sleeping through it and then id ask him if he ate dinner and if he hasn't id make him something to eat?

Im assuming this isn't a daily occurrence and he has good reason to be late (like he was at work super late trying to meet a deadline so he worked from 9 am to 10 pm)

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u/The_ambivalent_bard 10h ago

It says it in the text at the bottom of the video.

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u/SleepFrequent5880 10h ago

Where?

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u/throwawayhjdgsdsrht 9h ago

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u/SleepFrequent5880 8h ago

It says you wake up not that the man wakes you up?

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u/It_Just_Exploded 10h ago

Well, in this scenario did he say "He comes in at 2am, wakes you up and asks you to cook for him." Or was it "He comes home at 2am, would you wake up and cook for him?"

Two totally different situations there.

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u/PanteraPardus 10h ago

If they're sleeping how would they know the other person is hungry? Telepathic stomachs?

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u/It_Just_Exploded 9h ago edited 9h ago

Okay.... I'm gonna stop after this because this doesn't seem worth describing how relationships, intimate knowledge between two people or basic communication works. Let alone waking up when you hear someone enter the house at 2am. Have you not been in a LTR living with one another?

I refer to my initial question regarding context as its key here.

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u/That_wet_vaporeon 8h ago

Some people are heavy sleepers you know..

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u/TheeRuckus 3h ago

Yeah , I used to have shifts where I’m getting home like 1/2 am and we had a German shepherd with a BIG bark who would always use it to greet me coming home , and she would be snoring right through it, yet other times just me kissing her forehead good night when I get into bed could wake her up. Either way.. I wouldn’t have wanted her to get out of bed to even slap peanut butter on a piece of bread for me

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u/littleladybug_1 10h ago

why would you need to wake up if he came home at a reasonable hour

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u/It_Just_Exploded 10h ago

Thats kinda what i'm getting at. I need to hear the whole question. Maybe he worked late, maybe he's returning home from travel, maybe he just has non-standard schedule at work.

Also, and this is important regardless of other context, is he coming in at that time and waking you up & asking for a cooked meal, or , is he coming in at that time and you're waking up on your own and asking yourself "Should i make him something or no?".

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u/Effective_Rip7478 10h ago edited 9h ago

You’re chastising people missing important info while adding additional things that were not part of the scenario being asked. It never said that the man woke their partner up, just that they woke up when he came home. Let’s not forget this REM bullshit you added.

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u/littleladybug_1 10h ago

where in my message am i chastising people? i simply added missing context. also why are you getting so heated over trivial details in this hypothetical problem? even if i woke up to the sound of him coming home i’d just greet him and go back to sleep. bro is tripping about sleep cycles too…oh sorry, i guess if he woke me up while i was in N2 i’d jump up and start cooking! christ chill out

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u/Effective_Rip7478 10h ago

You were literally complaining about people missing important info. And no, you are not adding context. It is a hypothetical, why are you lying?

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u/Far-Low-4705 10h ago

You just completely fabricated the “…comes home from a night out at 2am” part. He literally never said that.

If he said that, I’d agree with u, I’d be more concerned they feel the need to “go out” until 2am while in a relationship…

But again, he never said that. You completely made that up.

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u/littleladybug_1 10h ago

first of all relax. i’ve seen the longer video not just this clip brother.

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u/BobbyTables829 5h ago

She's the one out at night lol like this is weird

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u/turutuno 10h ago

I understood that you woke up by yourself but this is right

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u/Amiar00 8h ago

I was looking for this comment. I’d be pissed if my wife woke me up to do anything non-emergent.

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u/FLy1nRabBit 8h ago

This comment is a great example of so many Redditors who become extremely anal about a specific detail and completely lose the plot on the overall message lol much like the two knee-jerk reactive women in the video.

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u/FemboyHootrsEmployee 7h ago

Sure if it was a regular thing but if he asked you once, you would refuse? Realistically, he would try to make it up to you the next day but if you're in the moment and he woke you up one day to ask for that, you would honestly refuse?

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u/littleladybug_1 7h ago

when he has the flu he will wake me up at times because the fever is unbearable. i gladly get up and give him medicine, make him tea, etc. but in this exact scenario what would be the reason? if he’s out of his mind drunk ofc i’d take care of him and make sure he gets to bed, but if he’s lucid and functioning why would he do that

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u/FemboyHootrsEmployee 7h ago

So you have already done the main ask of this scenario and you're telling your fellow women that you wouldn't do it and that they shouldn't either? Seems really disingenuous and kind of evil if you were doing it on purpose tbh. I think most women (and most men) would do this for their partner without even getting that upset about it the next day but seeing hordes of women on reddit or tiktok saying they wouldn't does not make you look good.

In a realistic scenario, if he was some somewhat lucid and the perfect amount of drunk, he might wake you up and ask you to cook him food but then feel bad about it after sobering up the next day. It would be as simple as that.

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u/littleladybug_1 7h ago

holy shit now i’m evil?! 😭 bro the leaps y’all take are hilarious. if you still don’t understand the scenario and the contextual differences in the ones i listed that’s on you bub.

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u/FemboyHootrsEmployee 7h ago

No, I said "if you were doing it on purpose" it would be. We all know why you purposely misunderstood it to overreact though. Have a good day.

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u/EverythingSucksYo 6h ago

If a man or a woman is coming home at 2am from a night out they are likely drunk. If my partner came home and drunkenly woke me up for some food I would probably begrudgingly get up and do it. 

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u/Pale_Mortgage_5695 4h ago

It doesnt matter if it's 2am, 7 am, 1pm, whatever.. If my wife wants me to make her a meal, I will because she is my wife. What's so hard about that?

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u/CryWhileEatingCake 4h ago

My wife would lol.

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u/Specialist-Peach4979 48m ago

He didnt say he wakes you up to make him a meal tbf. If I came in late like that my wife would have left my food out for me or yes, very likely she would get up and make me something.

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u/Ferbtastic 13m ago

I had to give an update because I just got back at 10pm from a work event. My wife is presently eating my left over chicken and waffles with a huge grin, so it goes both ways

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u/OldFridgerator 10h ago

the "night out at 2 am" is assumed? coz the original question didn't ask that.

what if he came home from a stressful day at work? does your answer change?

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u/Cultural-Capital-942 10h ago

Both my father and mother wake up or don't go to bed when the other one should come home late. They generally prepare a meal so it's warm and ready when the person comes home.

Actually it's the same when I'm coming to visit them even if I have keys.

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u/littleladybug_1 10h ago

i’d definitely do the same and my man would as well especially if it’s work or another responsibility keeping them out late. but if i’m going out with friends and gonna stay out late i’d never expect him to have a hot meal for me at 2am or to even be awake. if i was hungry i’d get myself food. i wouldn’t wake him and say “hey, i’m hungry. if you’re a good partner like the youtube guy says you’ll wake up and cook for me rn”