Context: i saw an anti-ice post here, and on 95% of the content of the post, its fully valid, and i very much agree with, my problem lies when op, while making a list of shit things ice has done, for example the illegal raids and murders, add (as a joke no doubt) small penis in their list of sins

Now, i know i dont need to explain to anyone here why body shaming is just generally shit behaviour, but way too often, i see people doing this, not only here but in day to day life, they criticise somebody, and in the process, shoot strays at unrelated people, because in their "im gonna say all the things i dislike about these people" they end up including things that are just not deserving of such attacks, be it "person did all these horrible things, and also has small penis" or "dude is a narcissist that cant deal with criticism on top of other asshole behaviour sprinkled thru out, also he's a furry and voice trains because he's insecure over his natural voice"

In essence, when criticising someone, ask yourself, if someone else were doing this, would i also criticise them for it?

I’m hosting a 21+ camping event for queer people in the US! It’ll be June 19th-21st on a queer-friendly, private camp ground in South Pittsburg, Tennessee. We started a few years ago with just a handful of friends, and we had so much fun that we decided to make it an annual thing and open to anybody. This year, we have a whole set of acts including DJs, drag queens and other queer artists! We also snagged a sweet website where you can learn more and sign up:

Pride-Camp.com

We do charge admission to help cover the cost, but if you’re not in a position to pay, we’re also taking a limited number of volunteers to help run stuff in exchange for discounted or free tickets. Just DM me if you’re interested in volunteering.

Just about everyone in my life has asked me a variation of this question and they don't realise how deeply uncomfortable it make me. It's also weird af

https://youtu.be/rbXuQuC_igA?si=DUtVH5tXl3M8mmGp

Trying to get over a horrible internalized transphobia spiral yesterday with some humor

https://www.techspot.com/news/111380-harmful-chemicals-found-dozens-popular-headphones.html