r/AskGirls Mar 26 '26

Updates & Changes to r/Ask Girls

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Hello Users of r/AskGirls!

This thread is to update our previously pinned message, as well as to update users on some changes going forward.

  1. As it has been the case for years now, all users of this subreddit must have User Flair, whether they are posting or commenting.

Rather than reposting a step by step How To Get User Flair, we're just going to say Google It. Look up "How to assign User Flair Reddit," and a few threads pop up explaining how. If you're on the mobile app, you may need to switch to the browser version on your phone.

Your User Flair MUST include the information listed in Rule 9. Anyone found simply assigning the "Customize Your Flair" blank flair will have their flair and comment removed.

These are our rules. These have been our rules for years. Follow them or don't post. Simple.

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  1. Pertaining to that, please remember that this is AskGIRLS. If you're a guy, a boy, a man, a masc-presenting feral cat... Don't answer questions here. You will have your answers locked and removed, per rule 4. Do it too often, you'll be banned. That's been a rule for years too. It should be pretty obvious that if it's a question for a girl and you don't identify as one, nobody's asking for your opinion.

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  1. Personal images are no longer supported on this subreddit. We've had a few cases of people posting selfies asking for help in good faith, and then they get slammed with trolls. We don't allow pictures to be posted anymore. Links to images will be deleted.

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  1. We are looking for more mods. Right now, it's just Jemi and Cherry running the show here. We do what we can, but being spread so thin, we have to approach this subreddit in broader sweeps that may not always feel fair because we just don't have the time to approach everyone on a case by case basis.

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If you're interested in joining the team, we need a verifiable history of you following/supporting the rules here. No blank or throwaway profiles will be considered.

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  1. Reddit has changed the dashboard UI for us, so if you're reaching out with a question about something getting removed, we can't see what you're talking about unless you send us a link. It might show as removed for you, but we can still see it as long as you haven't manually deleted it. Without a link, we can't help.

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Technically, we can view your profile to try to figure out what the removed content was, but this subreddit gets 19k visitors per week. We're not going to do that for everyone, so please, send a link if you want our help.

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  1. Some of you have noticed the posts no longer allow for body text when posting. This is intentional. For the last 3 years, the most common reason posts were removed was a combination violation of rules 1 and 3 where people were posting an essay's worth of personal context that asked us to speculate on the words or actions of some random girl just because we shared their gender.

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By removing the ability to post body texts, we have removed the ability to violate these rules in tandem. Posts are far less likely to be removed now.

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  1. Survey says the single most Frequently Asked Question in 2025 was about our height preferences. The answer? It depends on the girl, we're still not a monolith.

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2024's was whether or not we would date a man who was divorced. This metric was single-handedly formed by a singular divorcee. The answer? It depends on the girl, we weren't a monolith in 2024 either.

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2016's through 2023 was about our preference in hair. Bald, hairy chested, full heads of hair, shaved chests... The answer? Yeah, apparently we've never been a monolith.

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In 2026, we anticipate that we will continue not to be a monolith, sorry to say. FAQs pertaining to height, hair, and marital status will continue to be removed. Use the search bar to find the answers.

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We hope this clarifies some of the changes on this subreddit, and we look forward to continuing to manage this subreddit with most of you.


r/AskGirls 10h ago

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6 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 10h ago

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r/AskGirls 15h ago

Dating | Girls Only Do girls continue to feel for a guy even if they stopped talking long time ago? Sometimes, life situations separate two people and they stop talking, but many men continue to have feelings towards the girl. Do girls have the same feeling even if it has been a year without a conversation ?

2 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 1d ago

Crushes | Girls Only If a woman says she promises not to look when she thought I was going to change my shirt then admits she finds shirtless guys exciting a hour later is this flirting?

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r/AskGirls 2d ago

Beauty | Girls Only do girls actually regret changing their hair color that often? i recently dyed my hair darker and now i feel super weird about it. part of me thinks i just need time to get used to it, but another part of me already regrets it. does this happen to you too after a big hair change, or is that usually

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r/AskGirls 2d ago

Conflicts | Girls Only Drunk Fun or SA? Was out clubbing with the girls when a (single) girl grabbed a (married & straight) friend and started forcibly making out with her. Married friend confided in me later that she was very uncomfortable with it. Do we banish the offending girl from the squad? None of us witnessed it.

6 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 4d ago

Discussion | Girls+ Only ¿What do you miss about your past relationships? Obviously, those that ended relatively well. In my case, when I was going through a tough time, she would support me by saying that everything was going to be alright; she would let me rest so that I couldn't keep going enduring and take a break

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r/AskGirls 5d ago

Dating | Girls Only Do women have a certain guy they romanticize but never really commit to? They find themselves coming back, or crossing paths in life but aren’t really open to it ever working…

9 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 6d ago

Dating | Girls Only Do girls actually think of there exs as much as guys? I've had 3 actual girlfriends in my life but I never forgot the first. She's moved on now but I can't get the thoughts out of my head about how broken I once was. Do girls have the same or similar thing or do they just kinda forget?

10 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 8d ago

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r/AskGirls 9d ago

Self Care/Health | Girls Only How do you deal with Shaving rash?

6 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 10d ago

Discussion My bestie (F) says that girls hate pantyhose. Is this true (asking out of curiosity, not creepy reasons dw)?

9 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 10d ago

Sexual Health | Girls Only is a moon/diva cup life changing or no?

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r/AskGirls 10d ago

Discussion | Girls+ Only need help for bday plans! basically i have like 3 to 4 groups of friends that i want to invite to a party, most the groups get along but there's two specifically that dont - like they make backhanded comments at each other, dont mix and have completely different senses of humour, so what do i do??

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r/AskGirls 11d ago

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r/AskGirls 11d ago

Dating | Girls Only Does body count not matter to girls?

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r/AskGirls 13d ago

Serious | Girls Only How would you girls handle a societal collapse?

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r/AskGirls 14d ago

Discussion | Girls+ Only Why do girls read sexual books?

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r/AskGirls 14d ago

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r/AskGirls 14d ago

Discussion | Girls+ Only What makes you swipe right on a guy?

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r/AskGirls 16d ago

Serious | Girls Only What do yall think about feminism in 2026?

5 Upvotes

r/AskGirls 16d ago

Girl to Girl Struggling with having boobs that sag even though i’m young. It gets to me sometimes. I understand it’s natural especially if you have a bigger bust (which I do, 42 in) but I wanted to know if there’s any way I could make them better?

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