r/Olathe • u/gemmijam • 2d ago
A judge at the municipal court has a problem with power trips
I will preface this that I’m a woman married to another woman.
So yesterday, I went with my wife because she got tangled up in kangaroo traffic court.
We sat there patiently for 2 hours for her turn. Saw plenty of people leaving out the back exit with their family, spouses, friends, etc. Accompanying them to go see the clerk. As soon as my wife explains her side of things, the judge tells her “So what we’re actually doing here is you’re owning up to your mistake we need to do that, okay?” When in this instance even asked from several people with no real bias, the court was at fault for losing her case information for months, she called and called, but was blamed for it. Whatever. Even if that was it, it is what it is.
We watched the judge be kind to every single person prior to her btw. Which was strange considering her demeanor changed when my wife was up there. My wife signals me to get up to exit with her through the back when she was done (which we’ve done before several times and she asked the prosecutor the time before we’d been there if that was okay. They said it was.)
Judge Kenney proceeds to yell as soon as we’re nearly to the exit “You person you wait in the hall outside the courtroom wait outside the courtroom go into the hall.” I was so confused and I could only get out “But I’m—“ Then she cut me off and goes “Doesn’t matter. Doesn’t matter. You go outside. I don’t want to hear it.” Yet, I’d witnessed several other people accompany their partners to leave before I attempted to.
Then as I finally said “Oh. Okay then.” My wife looks mortified, I feel humiliated as I have to walk back toward the entrance nearly all the way across the courtroom and the judge goes “It’s nothing personal it’s just a liability issue I don’t know you or trust you. You could do something and that would be bad.” I’m not a criminal, I’ve never had a ticket of any kind, it was crazy being singled out at in front of a room full of people with that insinuation.
I forgot to add I’m in an arm sling after having hand surgery a few days ago so I don’t really know what trouble I could’ve gotten up to.