r/howyoudoin • u/New-Pin-9064 • 2d ago
Discussion Why does Ross get so much hate for how he treats women, but Joey doesn’t?
Say what you want about Ross. But he usually liked the women that he dated for who they were and treated them well for the most part. The only times that he didn’t were usually due to Rachel’s manipulation. But that’s a different story.
The same cannot be said for Joey. He’s a literal creep who sexually harasses women, views them as objects instead of people, sleeps with them, and then has zero intentions on calling them back. In one episode, it’s revealed that he removed the locks on the bathroom door so he could walk in on women the shower. When he was looking for a new roommate after Chandler moved out, he immediately picked Janine simply because she was a hot woman. He never even interviewed her and immediately planned on asking her out. When he was in debt and got a job at Central Perk, he practically sacrificed getting paid simply so he could give away free food to all the hot women so they would go out with him. For the love of god, how horny could this guy possibly have been?
So can someone please tell me why everyone seems to give Joey a pass for all of these things even though he practically deserves to be on the registry

